Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Conversation Cafes

I think if I had unlimited resources and didn't have to worry about the bottom line, I would simply open a business that was geared toward inviting people in to have conversations. I guess like a cafe or coffee shop, but the emphasis on the people. If I could do anything for a living, I think it would just involve meeting people, hearing what they have to say, and then stepping back to process it and try to make things happen.

The problem is, I have yet figure out how to turn that into a reliable source of income.

So, when I came across this article this morning, Conversation Cafe at Yes! Magazine, I was intrigued.

A few blurbs from the short article,

Conversation Cafés are intended to restore something missing from our culture; to nudge us towards the classic American values of generosity, safety, friendliness, creativity, pragmatic decision making—in short, democracy.

I envisioned intimate, reflective conversations that increased participants' capacity to engage in respectful and inquisitive conversations at home, work, and in social situations. Could a “culture of conversation” be built, or coaxed into being?

Conversation Café hosts are social liberators—and the function can go far beyond a small table in a coffee shop. “If you want to change the world, throw a better party.”


So, according to this article, Conversation week is March 24-30, 2008.

Maybe something is in order here?

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

As long as it isn't just bitching!

Lizard Eater said...

This reminds me of the Dharma and Greg where the character of Dharma opens a store, with no product. But the store fills up with people and a sort of bartering community forms. Lots of conversation and community.

(http://www.tv.com/dharma-and-greg/yes-we-have-no-bananas-or-anything-else-for-that-matter/episode/864/summary.html)

I thought that the episode, silly though it was, made an important point about how starved we are for community. Just like the famous "soup nazi" Seinfeld made a point about how starved we are for comfort. (Whether they wanted to make a point or not.)

Hmm, maybe we're marketing our church wrong. FELLOWSHIP TIME! TIME TO DRINK COFFEE AND TALK WITH OTHER INTELLIGENT PEOPLE! preceded by a worship service ....

Shannon said...

I cringe because this isn't the first time I have been compared to Dharma... lol

Hey, as a small struggling congregation, don;t think we haven't tried that approach to marketing.

My first intro to UU was my mother in law, who "didn't want anyone preaching at her," so she never went to services but showed up in time for coffee hour and stayed for a discussion group that met after coffee hour. She didn't attend a single service in her last 5 years there.

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The Complete Poems
Collected Poems
Kenya: Between Hope and Despair, 1963-2011
Anti-Bias Education for young children and ourselves
I Laugh So I Won't cry: kenya's Women Tell the Stories of Their Lives
How to Be Compassionate: a Handbook for Creating Inner Peace and a Happier World
Children
The Hundred Languages of Children: The Reggio Emilia Approach Advanced Reflections
The Secret Garden


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Rethinking Early Childhood Education
Anti-Bias Curriculum: Tools for Empowering Young Children
Safari Animals
Young Children Reinvent Arithmetic: Implications of Piaget's theory (early childhood education series
Total Learning: Developmental Curriculum for the Young Child
Clinical Supervision and Teacher Development


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